We feel heard when we or someone else is fully present. It is the greatest gift we can give to our self and to others. We know or can sense when someone is not listening. What we're really feeling is that they are not present with us. We make all sorts of interpretations as a result; we're not important, we don't matter, we're not worthy of their attention and therefore, their love and acceptance.
Do you hear you? Are you present to you? Plug your self in to the present by meditating and hearing what you have to say.
Meditation is the tongue of the soul and the language of our spirit ~ Jeremy Taylor