Monday, May 31, 2010

Tapping in the positive and tapping away the negative

The implicit messages for me in the approaches to tapping in the “positive” or tapping away the “negative”, is that there is something "bad" to be gotten rid of. We feel contaminated by the “bad” in some way and therefore there is an urgent need to get rid of it as quickly as possible. And then, there is something "good" somewhere out there in the ether, that isn't a part of us. There is instead, a desperate grasping for the good stuff, that deep down, we don't believe we are a part of and deserve.

The issue I see with these approaches is that there is a fundamental belief that we are not innately good and that there is something innately wrong with us. Seeing good as something external and something bad as internal are very powerful beliefs that we can tap on. The language we use is so telling, it is an accurate reflection of our beliefs and thoughts, and can guide us easily to what the real issues are.

Examine any beliefs you may have that do not serve you and use EFT to dissolve them. Tapping diagram.

Freedom means you are unobstructed in living your life as you choose. Anything less is a form of slavery – Wayne Dyer

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