A deep sense of love and belonging is an irreducible need of all people. We are biologically, cognitively, physically, and spiritually wired to love, to be loved, and to belong. When those needs are not met, we don't function as we were meant to. We break. We fall apart. We numb. We ache. We hurt others. We get sick ~ Brené Brown
When we love and accept ourself it is impossible to make someone else feel unworthy, undeserving or unacceptable. You didn't know it as a child, but these issues weren't yours. Whatever we believe becomes our truth, even if it isn't true. Try tapping on these phrases and make sure to change them to suit you.
Even though I don't feel that I am enough, I accept how I feel
Even though I don't feel I belong, I accept myself anyway
I need ... to feel that I'm enough
I need ... to feel that I belong
I need ... to feel acceptable
I need ... to feel accepted
It feels possible to feel I belong
It feels possible that I can be enough
I am worthy of ...
I am not worthy of ...
The truth is: Belonging starts with self-acceptance. Your level of belonging, in fact, can never be greater than your level of self-acceptance, because believing that you're enough is what gives you the courage to be authentic, vulnerable and imperfect ~ Brené Brown