If you pay close attention to when you're doing EFT, you'll notice a point where you feel more relief, a favourite point so to speak. This can also change with time as you clear certain issues and then others come to the fore and a different point becomes important. Two of my favourite points are under the nose and sanyinjiao. This point is found on the inner leg about 3 fingers width up from the ankle bone. You can search the web for more information.